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fun sex toys for couples ideas

Looking for fun sex toys for couples? A body-safe sex toy you can buy to spice up your sex life in and out of your house?

Is it for yourself, a gift for your partner, or just to add to your bedroom collection?

Today, we’re excited to share some of the best sex toys many couples (including us) love and have lots of fun using in and out of the bedroom for mind-blowing orgasms with you.

Most of the stores that sell the toys bill and ship discreetly so you don’t have to worry about someone finding out what you purchased.

10 Fun sex toys for couples to spice things up

1. The Magic Wand Rechargeable

Magic Wand Rechargeable Vibrator fun sex toys for couples

The first sex toy on our list is this popular wand vibrator because anyone can use it for different purposes. Plus, it simply gets the job done for all genders. Simply place the vibrating head on your erogenous zones and enjoy the pleasurable sensations.

Pair the Magic Wand with one of these compatible attachments and you can use it for all kinds of fun, sexy times. For example, vulva owners can use it with this silicone rabbit attachment to stimulate their clit and g spot simultaneously. Penis owners can use it with this stroker attachment for stronger stoking vibrations.

The Magic Wand Rechargeable is cordless, has 4 intensity levels, 4 vibration patterns, and lasts for 3 hours once it’s fully charged. It’s durable and has been around for a long time.

Click here to get your Magic Wand

2. The Njoy Pure Wand

sex toys for couples njoy pure wandAnother gender neutral sex toy, the Njoy Pure Wand is excellent for prostate and g-spot stimulation due to its flawless curved structure. It’s super smooth, made of medical grade steel, and will last forever if you take good care of it.

The Njoy Pure Wand delivers amazing prostate and g-spot orgasms! If you want to try squirting, it’s the most recommended sex toy to use, and great for temperature play.

Now, unlike some sex toys on this list, the Njoy Pure Wand doesn’t have any motors inside it. Clean and dry it after each use and you are ready to store it for your next sexy time.

Click here to purchase your Njoy Pure Wand

3. Saffron Spreader Bar and Cuffs Set

sex toys for couples saffron spreader bar

From our experience, adding restraints to your sexual intimacy toolbox is one of the simplest ways to spice things up in the bedroom. And this Saffron Spreader Bar and Cuffs set is a great restraint sex toy to help you do that.

This elegant spreader bar set comes with four vegan leather cuffs and a sturdy stainless spreader bar.

As far sizing goes, each cuff has a circumference of 14 inches and the spreader bar is about 25 inches long from end to end. You can use them independently, or together for multiple sex positions and more bedroom fun.

The spreader bar is made of stainless steel and nickel-free metal, lightweight, and durable.

The beautiful vegan leather cuffs are easy to clean, secure, and have a great feel because of the padding. Your partner won’t be able to get out of these restraints.

Get this spreader bar with cuffs set to take your sexual experience and intimacy to another level.

Click here to get this Saffron Spreader Bar and Cuffs Set

4. We Vibe Melt

we vibe melt sex toy for couples

Made of super soft silicone, waterproof, and using waves of air pressure, this air pulse sex toy is one of the best clit suction toys for her sexual pleasure. It comes in a luxurious package with a storage bag, everything you need to use, plus a 2 year warranty.

We Vibe Melt is simply amazing for targeted clit stimulation. For comparison, it’s not as strong as the Magic Wand Rechargeable, but gives very different sensations and little to no numbness to the clit.

Because of its ergonomic shape, soft oval mouth, and size, it’s an amazing sex toy to use during sex with your spouse, or when your partner wants to use it solo.

As a plus, it comes with a free We-Vibe Connect app that makes it easy for your partner to use their phone to control it from anywhere in the world.

The app also has options for you to customize your intensity and patterns, like starting with a lower intensity and increasing it as you please. Long distance couples will definitely enjoy using this sex toy.

Click here to buy your Melt

5. Saffron Cuffs

sexy hand cuffs for bedroom

Want a pair of beautiful vegan leather cuffs without a spreader bar? If so, this pair of comfortable Saffron Cuffs is the perfect one to buy.

Each cuff has a circumference of 14 inches and depending on your ankle size, could be used as ankle cuffs too. Once your partner is restrained with these cuffs, they won’t be able to get out. Plus, it won’t cut into their skin,

Click here to get your cuffs now

6. Womanizer Duo 2

womanizer duo sex toy for couples

Want to experience blended orgasms, or the one that could make you see stars and curl your toes? This luxurious two-in-one toy for women is one of the sex toys to buy.

The Womanizer Duo 2 has a suction head that uses air pulse technology for clit stimulation and a curved, rumbly vibrating arm for internal g spot stimulation. Both parts can be used separately and simultaneously.

Womanizer Duo 2 is easy to use and comes with two suction heads that can be interchanged to find the one that works best for your body. Plus, it has a 5 year warranty so if you encounter any functionality issues, reach out to their customer service for a replacement.

Click here to buy Womanizer Duo 2

7. Inya Rose Vibrator and Suction Toy 

Inya rose fun couples sex toys

Just like its name, this sleek suction sex toy looks like a rose flower and can even be a nice decorative item on your desk or nightstand. It’s made of silicone, splash-proof, and delivers amazing orgasms.

The INYA Rose uses air pulsation technology and rumbly vibration simultaneously. You can use it solo for clit stimulation, nipple play, or have your partner use it on you.

A discrete looking sex toy, the Rose toy has 3 powerful OMG steady speeds, 7 patterns, and is amazing for when you want to start on higher suction intensity.

If you or your partner has a sensitive clit, skip this one because of how strong the vibrations and suction are. In fact, it’s one of the strongest clit stimulating suction sex toys on this list.

Click here to get the Inya Rose Toy

8. Mr. Hankeys Toys Dildos

couples sex toys hankeys dildos

Dildos are perfect when you want something different to fill you up, explore new sensations, reach different angles, or even try some fantasies without really bringing other people to your bedroom.

And Mr. Hankeys Toys gives you a wide variety of realistic and/or fantasy looking dildos to purchase. Hand-crafted and made of premium silicone, the dildos come in different colors, textures, firmness, width, length, shapes, and sizes to choose from.

Want an extra small (XS) or extra extra extra large (XXXL) dildo? Mr. Hankeys Toys has you covered. Want to customize the color too? Mr. Hankeys has you covered again. They simply have something for everyone.

Plus, Mr. Hankeys Toys gives you the option to add a Vac-U-Hole when choosing your toy so you can use it with bullet vibes, suction cups, strap-on’s, sex machines, and other accessories.

Popular options to check out are The Rentman, Seahorse, and Topher Michels.

Click here to get a body-safe dildo from Mr. Hankeys Toys

9. Tantus Silicone Paddles 

Tantus Paddles

If you want to try a spanking implement or take your impact play to another level, then get a Tantus paddle.

Made of silicone, they are easy to clean, durable and pretty much last for a long time, if not forever. Plus, you can sterilize them by boiling in water. The handles also have holes in them so you can easily hang them.

Tantus paddles come in different shapes and sizes, with different impact intensities from super stingy to thuddy. Interested in tawses? They have them here.

For example, the Pelt paddle is great for giving stingy sensations, while the Thwack paddle below is great for thuddy sensations.

Sex toys impact play Tantus

If you are new to impact play and don’t know which paddle to choose, go with the Thwack paddle. And use it gently until you and your partner want to ramp things up.

Click to get your Tantus paddle today

10. Wartenberg Neuro Pinwheel Stainless Steel

Awaken your nerves and relax your body with this lightweight pinwheel. It sounds counter-intuitive that something sharp like this will give you relaxing sensations, but this fun sex toy for couples is something you should try, especially if you like or are curious about sensory play.

Simply roll it over your arms, back, thighs, breasts, or neck for prickly, tingly, and sensual sensations. As you use this sensation play sex toy, don’t press too hard because it could break the skin. Just drag it gently and slowly over your body, or your partner’s bare skin.

An inexpensive and fun sex toy for couples to play with, this pinwheel is certainly a great addition to every bedroom collection.

Click here to order your Pinwheel

Bonus: Lube

When it comes to lube, two of our favorites are Sliquid H2O and Uberlube because they are great for sexy time and don’t affect pH levels.

Sliquid H2O is water-based and can be used with silicone toys. It’s unscented, vegan friendly, glycerin and paraben free. Plus, it has only 4 ingredients.

Uberlube is silicone-based. It’s unscented, tasteless, and not sticky. We recommend you don’t use any silicone lube with your silicone sex toys.

Buying a sex toy for your partner

If you’re planning to buy one of these amazing sex toys for your spouse, talk to them to see what they like. Because you don’t want to purchase a toy they will not enjoy using, or even worse, never touch it.

Plus, having their input will get them excited to see what you can surprise them with. For example, if your partner has expressed they want to try a suction toy or g spot vibrator, then that’s a clue to surprise them with that specific type of toy.

Final thoughts

Whether you plan to use the sex toy solo or with your partner, we hope this list of fun sex toys for couples helps you improve your sexual intimacy, achieve your sexy time goals, and even better, take your sex life to new heights. 😉

P.S. Buy your sex toys from an authorized retailer, or directly from the company, so you don’t get a knockoff or counterfeit.


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